Here we go again
Jun. 1st, 2003 11:49 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
tiamatladyStupid Human Tricks, day TWO.
I went to Attleboro earlier. According to my last entry, posted at 7:04, I was home then. I think I got home about 6:30, in time t watch the end of the History Channel show on the Tsars, that I had to shut off last night while I was falling asleep. When I was driving to the house, I decided that rather than pull out into the back parking lot, I would go around the nearby block, to pull direct up in front of the house. I pulled up in front of a white van, with noone in front of me. I had the luxury of pulling way up, and backing up to the white van, so I'd be straight and pretty much on top of the curb.
Remember that.
I went out of the house about 9:30, to grab something to eat, and to then park in the back lot, as I wasn't going out again tonight. One of my neighbors has a TON of company, and they are parked one on top of the other. The ocndo owner is parked in back of me, and TWO cars are parked ahead of me. The cars are filling with people who are leaving.
Except for one who says to me - "Excuse me, but when you pulled up I noticed you were right on top of my car." I said "oh did you bump me?" she said "NO, YOU hit US. I just wanted you to know I noticed, and you should be more careful." I looked at her, confused, and said "When I got here, there was no one here but a white van." she said "You hit me and I have witnesses." NOW I'm pissed off and said "Lady, you don't HAVE witnesses, because I was already here when YOU hit ME! Maybe YOU should be more careful, or we'll have a problem." Her reply - "Well maybe YOUR problem is YOUR attitude!" My reply to that "Have a nice night you F**king Bitch."
I was LIVID, and the Unit, and this is HER problem, refused to let me confront the unit owner. Since the owner was parked BEHIND ME, there is NO WAY she could have missed my car being there. She also has the spot next to my mother's in the parking lot. This woman is in for an ear ache once I finally see her, and tell her how much her drunken friends SUCK. Oh, yeah, did I mention that they were all drunk? And driving. I was waiting for them to back into me again.
What burns me is my mother refusing to let me talk to the unit owner, whose party this beyatch got drunk at. She said I'd get everyone all hot and bothered, and I said "Good, let THEM call the police, so I can file a complaint. Since I'm the SOBER one, I think my word is a bit better than theirs." AND if I don't get satisfaction, you can bet your ass that I'll start taking it out on her. I think an apology from the drunken bitch MIGHT suffice. The problem is this bitch will get herself worked up, and you WATCH her find some of her Drunken "friends' to imagine they saw me hit her car, and she files some sort of claim. Since I wasn't allowed to deal with it WHEN it happened it's going to be up to me to deal with it AFTER the fact, when noone will believe me.
I've had it with being polite. If you piss me off, I'm going to slap you into the ground. Either verbally, or physically, if warranted. And I won't be all "*whine* everyone's against me" either. I take responsibility for my actions, and I'm starting to feel taken advantage of, that I WON'T react. next person that pushes me is in for a nasty surprise.
I went to Attleboro earlier. According to my last entry, posted at 7:04, I was home then. I think I got home about 6:30, in time t watch the end of the History Channel show on the Tsars, that I had to shut off last night while I was falling asleep. When I was driving to the house, I decided that rather than pull out into the back parking lot, I would go around the nearby block, to pull direct up in front of the house. I pulled up in front of a white van, with noone in front of me. I had the luxury of pulling way up, and backing up to the white van, so I'd be straight and pretty much on top of the curb.
Remember that.
I went out of the house about 9:30, to grab something to eat, and to then park in the back lot, as I wasn't going out again tonight. One of my neighbors has a TON of company, and they are parked one on top of the other. The ocndo owner is parked in back of me, and TWO cars are parked ahead of me. The cars are filling with people who are leaving.
Except for one who says to me - "Excuse me, but when you pulled up I noticed you were right on top of my car." I said "oh did you bump me?" she said "NO, YOU hit US. I just wanted you to know I noticed, and you should be more careful." I looked at her, confused, and said "When I got here, there was no one here but a white van." she said "You hit me and I have witnesses." NOW I'm pissed off and said "Lady, you don't HAVE witnesses, because I was already here when YOU hit ME! Maybe YOU should be more careful, or we'll have a problem." Her reply - "Well maybe YOUR problem is YOUR attitude!" My reply to that "Have a nice night you F**king Bitch."
I was LIVID, and the Unit, and this is HER problem, refused to let me confront the unit owner. Since the owner was parked BEHIND ME, there is NO WAY she could have missed my car being there. She also has the spot next to my mother's in the parking lot. This woman is in for an ear ache once I finally see her, and tell her how much her drunken friends SUCK. Oh, yeah, did I mention that they were all drunk? And driving. I was waiting for them to back into me again.
What burns me is my mother refusing to let me talk to the unit owner, whose party this beyatch got drunk at. She said I'd get everyone all hot and bothered, and I said "Good, let THEM call the police, so I can file a complaint. Since I'm the SOBER one, I think my word is a bit better than theirs." AND if I don't get satisfaction, you can bet your ass that I'll start taking it out on her. I think an apology from the drunken bitch MIGHT suffice. The problem is this bitch will get herself worked up, and you WATCH her find some of her Drunken "friends' to imagine they saw me hit her car, and she files some sort of claim. Since I wasn't allowed to deal with it WHEN it happened it's going to be up to me to deal with it AFTER the fact, when noone will believe me.
I've had it with being polite. If you piss me off, I'm going to slap you into the ground. Either verbally, or physically, if warranted. And I won't be all "*whine* everyone's against me" either. I take responsibility for my actions, and I'm starting to feel taken advantage of, that I WON'T react. next person that pushes me is in for a nasty surprise.
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Date: 2003-06-02 05:28 am (UTC)The incident aside, your mother does have the concern of a homeowner to consider, including the relationships she has with her neighbors.
The best move when it comes to drunks is to just let it go...no matter who is right, nobody wins. It just gets messy.
~k
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Date: 2003-06-02 07:17 am (UTC)On the bottom - She NEVER stands up for herself, in ANYTHING in this building. All she does is incessantly complain, to me, but writes no letters to management companies when things go bad in the building, and she lets other epople in the building walk all over her. I can't TELL you how many times shes come screaming to me about losing her newspaper, to someone who is a cronic thief. And she won't let me do anything like that either.
I wanted to deal with it IMMEDIATELY, if just to point out to the condo owner where my car was, and the fact that SHE herself was parked behind me. now, I have no way to prove anything. True, she was probably too drunk to notice.
I'm starting to see what my mother is saying about this building. I didn't mind too much, but between this, and the coming home at 2AM after ManRay and finding guys just STANDING outside in the parking lot, "hanging out" near visitor parking, and me having to walk to the door with them watching me, well, personally, I think this is not a safe building anymore. *sigh* I didn't want to move again, I'm going to move most of my stuff to the storage unit and that way, once I move, I'll be able to quickly move the essentials, then grab the other crap from the unit in bits and pieces.
OK, this got long *grins* Thanks for the even head thought process.