Do you know what sucks about today?
Sep. 4th, 2007 10:36 amThe emails I'm getting saying "ZOMG, I know you're SO BUSY today, and don't worry about my stuff but *reminders and pointy fingers just so you know how important me/my stuff/this client is*"
How about "I'll get to it in due course. I don't need REMINDING, I don't need you asking for it, and I don't need you trying to bully me for an answer. I need to be LEFT ALONE and I'll get to it."
I'm constantly amazed, and shocked that I'm amazed, at how self centered and selfish people are. Yes, I'm damn selfish, but I do a prett good job at containing it, so it's me myself and I, and I don't expect others (with one or two exceptions) to do FOR me, as part of my selfishness.
I'm paid to work on these clients, and I have to get the work done. They're not wrong in wanting me to do for them. They're wrong in thinking they are a singular, individiual flower, just waiting to be plucked and admired for it's glorious individuality and that THEIR CRAP is any more important, or necessary than anyone elses.
I have time sensative stuff, that gets done first. When something HAS to be done by noon, it needs to get done by noon. Other stuff has to wait.
Gah - I feel like my MOM, and I hate the feeling.
(OK I'm procrastinating, but I'm petulent today. Sue me.)
(weekend is so over. We enjoyed it, but now we pay the costs.)
How about "I'll get to it in due course. I don't need REMINDING, I don't need you asking for it, and I don't need you trying to bully me for an answer. I need to be LEFT ALONE and I'll get to it."
I'm constantly amazed, and shocked that I'm amazed, at how self centered and selfish people are. Yes, I'm damn selfish, but I do a prett good job at containing it, so it's me myself and I, and I don't expect others (with one or two exceptions) to do FOR me, as part of my selfishness.
I'm paid to work on these clients, and I have to get the work done. They're not wrong in wanting me to do for them. They're wrong in thinking they are a singular, individiual flower, just waiting to be plucked and admired for it's glorious individuality and that THEIR CRAP is any more important, or necessary than anyone elses.
I have time sensative stuff, that gets done first. When something HAS to be done by noon, it needs to get done by noon. Other stuff has to wait.
Gah - I feel like my MOM, and I hate the feeling.
(OK I'm procrastinating, but I'm petulent today. Sue me.)
(weekend is so over. We enjoyed it, but now we pay the costs.)