I should be in bed
Dec. 12th, 2002 02:05 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
tiamatladyyet here I am, sitting at this damn machine.
I just had a chicken sandwich, so I'm letting that settle.
I realized that if I get late night coffee at 7-E, I make it into a Toasted Almond. Some sugar, some Ameretto non dairy creamer, and the Kahlua and Creme coffee. Jeez! Such a lush *grins*
And I'm wondering WHY some people seem to feel it necessary to tell me I'm rude. This guy starts talking to me, after stalking me for 2 hours, and I ignore him. His opening line "Nice boots." Let me tell you, unless you're![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
gothic_peacock this approach will not work. He then tries to introduce himself to my back. I said "No." He said "No you don't feel like talking?" "Yes, oh HI xaniboy He got very incensed and poked me to tell me how rude I was. I said "Look, I don't have to talk to anyone I don't want to, goodbye" He kept telling me I had no right. I kept tell him "I don't have to talk to you, goodbye." I must have said good bye at least six times. The kicker was when he said "I"m not talking to you, I'm just saying you're rude." My answer "You';re not talking to me? You're making things worse. Goodbye" I was waiting for him to come back, to tell me how rude I was, again. I guess this was "If you won't talk to me, I'll guilt you into it." Little does he know *evil grin*
Seriously, WHY on earth should I be friendly to people I don't want to be? If you suck, I'm not dealing with you, if you snub me, I'm NOT dealing with you. If you run away from me then bitch about me later on your LJ I'm NOT dealing with you. No I am not the friendliest person on the planet, when doe people realize I'm OKAY with that? Why is it such a problem? I'm tired of hearing "You don't know me." And guess what? I don't WANT to know you. I've not been wrong about the truly ickky people, and I've always regretted every single time I've let a friend wheedle me into it saying "they're nice, you just don't know them." My gut reactions are ALWAYS right.
Oh, and there's a difference between me not knowing you, and me not liking you, (right Mr.deadwinter? *evil grin* BTW - Send me your contact info, if you want to geta card.)
Bleh. I hate hate HATE stupid men, and I seem to be surrounded at the moment. Why, ohpoetman isn't there a guy like you here, and interested (two of your inherent problems regarding me *evil grin*)
Tomorrow, I'm again buying myself a present. I'm going to a client in Cambridge, and it's right near China Fair, and I think I'm going to run in and get a nice cheap Japanese tea set. Something in Green and black. But I didn't want to pay a lot for it in Crate and Barrel, I didn't like that one anyway. I'm tired of not being able to brew my yummy tea from London, since it's not really working in just a mug. I'll have to take my tea strainer to make sure it fits, although I could just buy a new one. *hmmmmm*
BTW - ben is being promoted soon, if we're going to make a mass trip to mock him it had better be soon *grins*
Coffee then bed. I SO don't want to get up already.
I just had a chicken sandwich, so I'm letting that settle.
I realized that if I get late night coffee at 7-E, I make it into a Toasted Almond. Some sugar, some Ameretto non dairy creamer, and the Kahlua and Creme coffee. Jeez! Such a lush *grins*
And I'm wondering WHY some people seem to feel it necessary to tell me I'm rude. This guy starts talking to me, after stalking me for 2 hours, and I ignore him. His opening line "Nice boots." Let me tell you, unless you're
gothic_peacock this approach will not work. He then tries to introduce himself to my back. I said "No." He said "No you don't feel like talking?" "Yes, oh HI xaniboy He got very incensed and poked me to tell me how rude I was. I said "Look, I don't have to talk to anyone I don't want to, goodbye" He kept telling me I had no right. I kept tell him "I don't have to talk to you, goodbye." I must have said good bye at least six times. The kicker was when he said "I"m not talking to you, I'm just saying you're rude." My answer "You';re not talking to me? You're making things worse. Goodbye" I was waiting for him to come back, to tell me how rude I was, again. I guess this was "If you won't talk to me, I'll guilt you into it." Little does he know *evil grin*Seriously, WHY on earth should I be friendly to people I don't want to be? If you suck, I'm not dealing with you, if you snub me, I'm NOT dealing with you. If you run away from me then bitch about me later on your LJ I'm NOT dealing with you. No I am not the friendliest person on the planet, when doe people realize I'm OKAY with that? Why is it such a problem? I'm tired of hearing "You don't know me." And guess what? I don't WANT to know you. I've not been wrong about the truly ickky people, and I've always regretted every single time I've let a friend wheedle me into it saying "they're nice, you just don't know them." My gut reactions are ALWAYS right.
Oh, and there's a difference between me not knowing you, and me not liking you, (right Mr.
deadwinter? *evil grin* BTW - Send me your contact info, if you want to geta card.)Bleh. I hate hate HATE stupid men, and I seem to be surrounded at the moment. Why, oh
poetman isn't there a guy like you here, and interested (two of your inherent problems regarding me *evil grin*)Tomorrow, I'm again buying myself a present. I'm going to a client in Cambridge, and it's right near China Fair, and I think I'm going to run in and get a nice cheap Japanese tea set. Something in Green and black. But I didn't want to pay a lot for it in Crate and Barrel, I didn't like that one anyway. I'm tired of not being able to brew my yummy tea from London, since it's not really working in just a mug. I'll have to take my tea strainer to make sure it fits, although I could just buy a new one. *hmmmmm*
BTW - ben is being promoted soon, if we're going to make a mass trip to mock him it had better be soon *grins*
Coffee then bed. I SO don't want to get up already.
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Date: 2002-12-12 11:30 am (UTC)Bleh. I hate hate HATE stupid men, and I seem to be surrounded at the moment. Why, oh poetman isn't there a guy like you here, and interested (two of your inherent problems regarding me *evil grin*)
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I have no idea why some dude would do that. He does sound wierd. And as far as me and my interests go, well since Fran I have had NO interest in anyone. It's kind of a nice feeling being single and totally not on the make. :>
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Date: 2002-12-12 11:43 am (UTC)I mean someone who knows how to treat a woman like a lady, while still allowing her independence. It's a fine line. One thing you DON'T do is creep out a woman, like that guy did me. He insisted on bereating me because I wouldn't talk to him, that certainly isn't going to make me want to talk to him any MORE!
I'd be surprised if you WERE interested in anyone right now. It's going to take some time to get to a point where you actively want the companionship.
You're a darling and you'll find the "right" one at some point, when you're ready. That I assure you.