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[tiamatlady]

what do you do when you see someone (SO, friend, former friend, raging enemy, I could name at least one person in each category) performing the same destructive behavior over and over and OVER again?

I'm thinking of someone I WAS friends with, and had a huge blowup with, pretty much (from MY side anyway) due to behavior patterns that are selfish, and presumptive. I'm seeing it happen AGAIN, and I don't like it. I want to put a stop to it, but, you know, they aren't my friend, it shouldn't worry me, or impact me.

But what if they were? I have some friends who continually pursue the same patterns. And then I have friends I've LOST to destructive people, and, you know, I'd like for that to NOT happen again, thanks.

*sigh* I'm going to not think about this. Today is Letty's b-day and we're having a quasi surprise dinner at an Olive Garden, where I've never been. I've STARVING already and I think some bottomless pasta and salad just could make my night, with LOTS of meat sauce. Plus, I need to try and find a gift, so I'm leaving soon to go do that. Then I think I'll come home and clean (Sorry elvendoll I just don't think ManRay is in my cards tonight. I have too much to do in my room)

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[feline.livejournal.com]

I'm not the best person on this front, but I'd like start the conversation with, "We aren't friends anymore, but I still give a damn about you. I know you'll likely ignroe this, but this is what I see going on..."

Like I said, I'm notorious for opening my mouth, though.

[tiamatlady]

Oh did I imply I still cared?
*evil grin*
This one Pissed Me Off, and I don't care about HER.
I do care about some of her fallout. there's one boy in particular i mert through her, and LOST because of her. *grrrrr*

[feline.livejournal.com]

Hrrm. Then I guess I'd say, "Don't fuck with my friends..."

I'd feel less worried about saying something.....