You took me off your friends list first, then you put me back on but I still never heard from you. I'm not the type to sit around and wait for people. Not anymore. Been there, done that. It gets me nowhere. I care about you but I don't have time to play these games. As far as the other person involved, it just seems as though you were waiting for an excuse to end your association with them. He has done nothing wrong to you and I was simply defending a friend. I would defend you the same way if the tables were turned. That is what friends do for each other. I know you would have defended me too and I appreciate that. As for my conversations with others, all I can say is, I expressed my personal concerns with one person, no names mentioned. If that was blown up and ruined your friendships with others, I'm sorry. But should you really be saying things about people you hardly know? Even if there is validity in your judgements, I don't think it is appropriate to be their buddy to their face and then talk about them behind their back when they can't be there to defend themselves. We are all human. We are all guilty of misjudging people occassionally. I just don't understand why you were so willing to stop speaking to me simply because I had an opinion and was willing to stick up for someone that I care about. I don't wish to discuss this on live journal any further.