You just made me think of one of my favorite Ani songs:
"i am not an angry girl
but it seems like i've got everyone fooled
every time i say something they find hard to hear
they chalk it up to my anger
and never to their own fear
and imagine you're a girl
just trying to finally come clean
knowing full well they'd prefer you
were dirty and smiling"

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So, when are we going to the spa for facials and pedicures? :)